The NITK Chapter is officially closed. As Bangaloreans, we have had plenty of rants against college. But after the exodus dawns the epiphany that things weren't so miserable at NITK after all. Now that I'm back home, I've been able to see the very thin silver lining beneath those very, very dark clouds that made these past four years pretty rough.
After a fairly successful series of exams(barring the JEE of course!), I landed up in a class of 73 other souls, who, like me, had screwed up just the one exam but had fared pretty well in the AIEEE and landed in the most sought-after branch in the most sought-after NIT, only behind the IITs and BITS Pilani. Although I felt from the curriculum book when I first looked at it that our courses were very well-structured, I must admit that quite a few of them were mostly rote-mugging courses sugar-coated to sound cool. The Department and Its Presiding Diety always kept us on our toes. Assignments, projects or those excru…
From obscure Hoysala temples to large monoliths, from
quaint blackbuck reserves to the Merlion, from Madhugiri to Malaysia, the last two
months have been the best travel-wise, and have seen me and my humble Santro go
places all over the state! This trip, however, was done alongwith my cousins in
their i10 (which I must say, is a pleasure to drive!). The destination this
time, was the oldest dam of Karnataka - Marikanive Dam or Vani Vilasa Sagara,
near Hiriyur in the Chitradurga district. As a kid I remember visiting Chitradurga and its massive
fort, and ever since, the image that comes to mind when I hear any reference to
the Chitradurga district is a wild, wild west-type barren land with the Sun
burning down on you. But this trip shattered that myth for me. We started early in the day at around 6 as we knew the
traffic would build up on the NH4 Bangalore-Tumkur Road, and sure enough it
did. But after gobbling up delicious idlis at the Kamadhenu …
A psychological and evolutionary theory that attempts at explaining human behaviour is the Attachment Theory, mainly propounded by a John Bowlby, whose basic tenet is that infants need to develop a relationship with atleast one parent or a caretaker for its natural development to occur smoothly. This relationship, that Bowlby talks of, exists mainly between the 'caregivers' and infants aged 6 months to 2 years old. Bowlby published the full theory in his trilogy Attachment and Loss, and his Attachment theory has since become "the dominant approach to understanding early social development, and has given rise to a great surge of empirical research into the formation of children's close relationships".
While this theory does supposedly explain attachment of infants with their 'caregivers', what still eludes my mind is the nature of the myriad other attachments we have, all of which affect our behaviour, and psychological state equally, or maybe even more th…